Hes 8 yrs old (blue) and the other one is 7 (Bobbi) aka pig swine and has ADHD. They dont love like humans and its unhealthy for both dog and owner to be apart of that carp. My boyfriend refused to let me go over the issue of fur. He got to keep his and i felt it unfair. If you endeavor with a strong mind, you will be able to turn this offensive dog into an affectionate, kind to kids, loving canine. Change in the schedule. Choosing a pet over a partner is more common than you think. Which ended up in a giant arguement of me supposedly not loving her or respecting her because I stated I no longer would take care of her dog. Thank you. You may find that one of you is simply less in love with your pets than the other. List could go on forever I cut dog out completely once to unbearable. How on earth was I supposed to know that someone was going to treat their dog like an infantile god-being? That the dog calms him. Or you can buy a toddler bed. I see no solution to this and feel I must learn to accept the deep sadness in my heart for the sake of my marriage. I have had a dog for quite some time now, and grew up having multiple animals at the same time. Thats what Im saying. He would get more too, trust me. Or at least me, shes a heavy sleeper. She is okay sleeping in her bed,but is preferring to sleep up next to me. Replays with your dogs so perfect! Well. Wake upor go to sleep, without the dogs! Discuss with your husband: Convince him that you really love and need the dog. Things worked out for me as I hope to you guys. Calls her a good girl and constantly gives her treats and loves on her. Just as I clean after his 12 year old son who is completely capable of picking up after himself. My husband lets them sleep in the bed. Here are other signs the dog will exhibit if it is prone to separation anxiety. Cookie Notice It was a argument we had. Hes my husband, I want him to be happy, right? It barks constantly and urinates all over if not crated when no one is home and chews up my Gfs socks and underwear if given the chance. A dog lives 10 years tops, humans live avg 85 years.hmmm when dog dies, and it will, who will be there longer. Pets are ok when they are in their place, not when they run the home. Not to mention it likes to jump on the table when were eating, and whines till no end if she doesnt allow him out of his crate. My soon to be husband (in 5 months) has two adorable dogs. Sometimes the bond is instant and sometimes its not. Im not allowed to touch her without she makes some kind of complaint about pain or period issues, no sex since i had a versectomy as she wanted to come off the pill. I think when someone treats animals badly they have no problem treating people badly as well. The episode featured a family (husband, wife, 2 teenage kids) and their Pomeranian. Sometimes I think Americans have went insane. Sounds like a perfect case . Jake- But having spent a considerable amount of time at his house already with his pain in the ass dogi told him i am not moving in. Then I tell myselffreak! We recently moved in together and he never had her properly trained so we are working on house training even though shes almost 3 and shouldve already done this as a puppy. My desire to complete my furry family is running strong. Because IT could die!!! She does not come, she does not stay, she makes it impossible to bring her in and out. it was a very ill mannered badly behaved dog and I was determined to train her. Youve blown it with me. 138 Sponsored by Spokeo Are you worried that your partner is talking to someone? It just became too much. Im in the process of looking for a house and moving out now as she insists the dog is my responsibility as well and I HAVE to care for it. If the dog is the cause of many conflicts in your family, its a good idea to consult a professional psychologist to seek help. Your partners is jealous of your relationship with your dog,he knows his comments upset you,can you make him stop? For the most part, my partner is a wonderful and loving person. Having a dog has been romanticized in American culture, and is depicted on tv as this wonderful experience, where the dog does as its told, is an ever faithful companion, and causes no problems to the household. Im not interested in a DOG keeping me awake. I was able to love the dog when I didnt have to do so much for her. Wrong prayer. It takes some longer than others but you cannot let them run a mock and if he sets and KEEPS the boundaries without whining about it and accepts it wholeheartedly, then things can move forward. He mentioned it to me a month ago but we had a huge argument and never spoke about it again until the reality took place today. 6. Steadfast companions when asked, doing their own thing when we needed our space. Which I usually dont. Im in a high security high stress job. Allowing your kids to play with such a dog is just dangerous, and you need to realize that. It actually is 11 years old but has the energy of a 3 year old. Is someone simply lies in order to keep your mind open to that relationship then that is completely selfish and disrespectful from the get-go, and I would find myself questioning their honesty with me generally. Do you INVITE your partner to bed? Its truly an epidemic! Otherwise she whines ALL night. My boyfriend was drunk and as he got out the car he started throwing up. What was the result Im in the same boat my gf has a French bull dog and I cant stand him its driven us apart the only way I see a light at the end of the tunnel is if he goes But u seem the same so wanted to see how ur situation panned out. The worst part is, I cant hug or kiss her without this dog jumping between us and licking her face, which then totally turns me off! If I discipline the dog I am scowled at!! I ask if has ever yelled at her or hit or kicked her or anything that she would be afraid of him but he always says no she just doesnt listen to me. I actually love our dogs. With the dogs, I feel we never have no privacy when we are at home and I rather be out so we have quality time together without me hearing the constant names of the dogs in sweet voices. Some of these comments are down right selfish and show a complete lack of understanding of relationships. He makes my life miserable every time he calls he stupid or stupid fn dog. While your gone he will literally pee all over the kennel and aim it out of the kennel. Like I said, I love animals. In fact, thats how we ended up getting together. He wont go on vacation because she doesnt like being boarded! I am seeing my partner for two years now and convinced Im loved more than her dog. They arent children or babies. The thing is, i told her hes ok at the foot of the bed, i dont mind him on the bed if hes there and i had been telling her for 3 months to start training him but she jokingly would refuse to do so. I have a labra-doodle and have always had an inside dog. I have read comments about peoples marriages crumbling because of an animal. I live on 5 acres and have plenty of room. My partner is always defensive over any suggestions about the dog which makes me really upset and pissed off. He began to cry immediately and it woke my girlfriend up and she yelled at me. My partner has never really been a fan of dogs (animals in general) but agreed to getting one to make me and the kids happy. We know that by any means, we shouldnt let a kid and untrained dog be alone. All over a dog. I have bad experience right now and its boiling on depression for me. If a dog is never bathed, you are going to really have the dog smell and even worse when they are bigger dogs! I read your OP, and I am so sorry to hear that you were treated that way. And that is the same sort of excuses I hear from dog owners all the time hes just not used to other people or thats just the breed or thats just how he is. And the rest of us are expected to put up with it. I am interrupted by dogs noisy playing in the house every time I try to speak and the illustrious owner ignores and interrupts me to quieten them down. It went something like this: I was looking at brochures to get decorating ideas for the babys nursery. Hes had all that time to tell me about his dislike of dogs the first time he met my parents I asked him before we went in if he was okay with dogs and he said yes! Am I crazy for sticking around? any suggestions on what to do!?!? I never thought in my life I would have to give up my animals. Currently I am attempting to see if my family would be willing to take them in. From day one, training was implemented. Well this is a problem for me seeing as how I love my dogs so much. Any comment will help. Its got to the point that he even argues with me about it and starts to yell. After the second year of marriage I began to realize that my wifes focus was more on her dogs than on me. he just did it to be dominant and its my husbands fault for refusing to accept the fact his dog needed more training than he was willing to givehe said i told u i would have to get rid of my dog because of you..like i purposely sacrificed my baby to his dog just because i hate the dog.ughhhlike its my fault his dog has to go because it was my child that was the victim.no i just wanted my kids to be safe and the dog to be in a better suited home his whole family said he never should have allowed the dog around kids at all and im right and he just dont wana admit he was wrongnow we have to take the dog to a rehabilitation shelter and my husband is upset to have to end his relationship with his beloved hell hound this way..and i can only say i told u so..he finally did confess to me tonight that he was afraid the whole time that this would happen and hes sorry he endangered our kids by insisting the dog stay here and by not listening to me about training or re homing the doghe spent the entire day with our baby girl and feels terrible.as bad as i wanted to just put the dog down myself i dont have the heart i just hope this shelter can find someone that has no small kids and the ability to deal wth this kind of agression.i feel bad for the dog and my husbandbut i feel worse for my daughteri hope u can find some sane middle ground in your situation..i never did and my child suffered because husband had to put an animal above his human family. 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